pwd XDAIuv0C4UFOU rc 1179 date 2012/12/19(水)10:21 uname reiko email host 4133b802.cst.lightpath.net subject re(1):理不尽 size 2410 how -1 link 1 resp 3967.msg tree 3967 psemail res 1 「世の中に出たら理不尽は当たり前、それを学ぶのが学校」 という言葉についてですが、 私は「世の中に出たら理不尽な事はたくさんある。    その理不尽な事を一つ一つ取り上げて、直そうとする努力よりも    その理不尽な状況の下で自分に何が出来るか考え、自分で状況を変える努力をするほうが    効率的である」 と受け止めます。 この発言をした保護者の方も、理不尽な状況をひたすら我慢するべきだという意味使っているわけではないとおもいます。 >小学校は理不尽を学ぶ場、という感覚は海外にもありますか アメリカ在住ですが、理不尽を学ぶ場というより、 理不尽な状況になった場合には、自分で主張して状況を変えるべきだという考えは 日本、アメリカ在住にかかわらず、子供に伝えています。 ビルゲイツの人生の法則の一番最初が ’Life is not fair -- get used to it!’ です。とても面白いと思ったので、ここに全文コピーしておきます。 Rule 1: Life is not fair -- get used to it! Rule 2: The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself. Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both. Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping -- they called it opportunity. Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them. Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you are. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room. Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life. Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time. Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs. Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.